This is an awesome essay - very thinky and would probably fit in at so_sue_me :). If it weren't written last year, I'd tell metafandom about you, too :)

Um, have you seen some of the latest kink meme stuff? It's kinda of...out-there. Bad quality though. And I do admit that I was the one who requested JoMo/CM Punk cuddling, because that's a kink in my definition of the word - something you like to see in fic but that doesn't happen very often. But I definitely see them as equal in their relationship, should they have one.