If you are looking for some fascinating, informative, HOT HOT HOT, and thought-provoking reading, you could pick up a copy of The Leatherman's Handbook (http://www.amazon.com/Leathermans-Handbook-Silver-Jubilee/dp/1881684199/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1203266391&sr=8-1) I'm about 2/3 of the way through it and it's easily one of the best things I ever bought. It plays on a great deal of my own favourite kinks: Master/slave, exertion of power, discipline, various fetishes, and most importantly, it's manly Men dominating other manly men. No "fluffy sweater" set here.